- You get to have someone to come home to and share company with
- You get to have someone with whom you can have as much sexual pleasure as you both want
- You get to have someone to look after and who looks after you
- You get to walk with someone who is your best friend long term, at a time when even friendships don’t last
- You get to build a future with someone who knows you as an adult. Our parents know who were as children, our spouse knows who we truly are as adults
- You get to have someone to raise and guide the children with, collective effort
- You get to have someone who won’t give up on you just because of an argument
- You get to have someone who has your best interest at heart and looks out for you, warns you, corrects and challenges you to be better
- You get to have someone who shares in your success, your sorrows, your struggles, your good and bad days
- You get to have a companion. You are not alone, no loneliness. Someone to laugh with and open up to without feeling you are a bother or you are talking too much
- You get to have someone you are intertwined with to be your strength when you are weak
- You get to have a prayer partner who prays fervently because whatever affects you affects him/her
- You get to have a dependable helper you can count on
- You get to have someone to share responsibilities and roles with at home, lessening the weight
- You get to have someone to flirt with and be naughty with without judgement
- You get to have someone who has spent so much time with you that they understand you and can represent you, cover you and get you even without saying a word
- You get to have someone who worries about you when you are not OK, when an accident happens, when you are quiet or when you come home late
- You get to have someone to pour your love to knowing that you are not wasting it because this is long term
- You get to have someone who has given you authority to call on them, ask them for help or do things for you with no pay or demands; all because your spouse loves you and you do the same for your spouse
- You get to have someone who will be a custodian of your secrets and memories for life instead of talking with person A, then person B, then person C… It is comforting to build with one
- You get to have someone who teaches you things you never knew, only if you are willing to learn
- You get to have someone to grow old with whose love has been tried and tested
- You get to have someone who will continue with your vision and family in case you die
- You get to have someone you loved and who loved you for life in your brief journey on earth
- You get to have someone who helps you to fulfil purpose and you two coming together means you can do more
Category: Relationship
BE A GOOD WOMEN,GOD WILL REWARD YOU
A Good Woman is not interested in your Money or Status.. What she wants from you is your Time, Loyalty, Love and Commitment.. But what is happening now is that Most Ladies (90-95%) are only interested in dating or getting married to a made man. They don’t believe a poor man today, has the potentials of being a rich man tomorrow.
If you’re such a lady, have you ever asked yourself how that rich man you crave for made his wealth?
And who said it is not a blessing to marry a rich man? Yes! it is. But then, what if you are destined to help your husband achieve his goals? Why do you look down on him because he hasn’t got luxury of cash?
Let me tell you something ladies, a rich man isn’t one who spends extravagantly. A rich man isn’t one who gives you a fat cash or writes you a cheque after sleeping with you.
A rich man is someone who’s potentially blessed and believes in his ability to convert his brain stock into reality in due time. When you meet such people, discuss with them, you’ll know instantly.
Don’t look down on him because he’s poor today, you never can tell tomorrow.
I really do respect ladies that pass through the fire with their man and stand proudly to enjoy with him tomorrow. “Don’t judge by appearance. A rich heart might be under a poor coat.”
When you love a man, be yourself. Stand by him. Give him all the support you can and hope for a better tomorrow. Don’t let your friend’s choices intimidate yours. He’s your man, be proud of him,he is your Man.
A good woman will never be impressed by wealth or riches because the unconditional love and affection she will give you for a lifetime is priceless. A real woman is not impressed by chivalry, heroism or macho looks because she will support you all your life with her emotional strength. A real woman just needs to be respected for her values and ethics and loved to the core ….
Finally,ladies Never abandon a good man for a stupid reason, a jobless man, and a lazy man is never the same. He may not have today and that doesn’t mean he will be lacking forever.
And for you Men, If you find a woman who is showing you love,care and support at your struggling stage in life. Do everything to keep her and always respect her and make her your Queen.
Be a good women with a sincere heart, support your man and God will reward you with a good family and your expectations will never be cut off in Jesus name Amen.
TRUST IS POWERFUL!
Imagine Jonah coming back after 3 days of absence, no phone call, no message, nothing,* only to tell his wife he was swallowed by a fish and vomited after 3 days 😀😃😃 – just imagine how that sounded.
The wife will feel like breaking his head.⛏⛏
“Swallowed by fish?
Are you talking to a baby?
What an insult, lying to me as if I don’t have any brains? Which fish, mackerel or tilapia”?
Even if Jonah reported the issue to a pastor, the pastor will call him aside and say, brother Jonah, why not pray against lying spirits.😊
Neighbors will shout “ahh madam, you don’t understand, the fish is another woman”.
But between you and I,
Jonah was telling the truth
To Every Wife and Husband out there…TRUST IS POWERFUL!💪🏽👍
It is a necessary tool for sustaining all relationships.
😃😃😃
Make a right choice
My Prospective Partner…
When you Lean on your feelings; you miss your direction.
Define your intention before your feelings..
A prospective partner does not make one to feel single, rather he creates impression that there is no space….
Relationship without ” Attention ” and “Communication” is dead…
MakingTheRightChoice
(1) Communication is very crucial in a relationship.
- How do you cope without communication?
- Intimacy without communication is fake..
- Talking about marriage, yet you don’t plan together. ( How will You Make It Together)
NOTE: Every relationship is a miniature marriage.
Don’t start what you can’t finish.
(2) A Stingy guy in courtship won’t suddenly become a generous husband…
” A relationship can be compared to a garden; if you don’t maintain it, weeds will start growing..
How do you claim to love without care…
It won’t work.
(3) A lady who doesn’t believe in dignity of labour, will not serve as a contributor but a consumer.
( 4) Don’t date someone you will be feeling shy to introduce to people with boldness.
(5) Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t have your time, otherwise you may end up hurting yourself.
(6) You know you’re not comfortable in that relationship, but you’re afraid to take a walk, of course you don’t want hurt anyone.
- Hello, If you’re not happy, you’re hurting yourself.( Not Everyone Loves You For You)
(7) In all your relationship everyone says you’re a wife material, you’re a nice lady..
But none want to keep you, Why?
- Be mindful of those who praise you in other to use you. They value your Body and overlook your happiness…
(8) Anytime you start pleading to stay, because of time and resources you have invested..
- You have Already lost it… Love doesn’t plead to stay.
(9) ” I have a girlfriend ” but is you I want…
Hello, The greatest mistake you can make is to give your heart to someone whose heart belong to another… ( Refused to be an option)
People will treat you according to how you place yourself.
Whosoever that deserve you will fight for your love.
WOMEN, DON’T TRY TO KNOW A MAN WAYS.
A woman in the city went one morning to her husband’s office to report him to his boss. She told her husband’s boss how her husband usually squandered his N60,000 salary and only gave her N30,000 for upkeep.
After her narration, the boss told her to come back on the last day of the month.
On the set day, she arrived as planned. The boss called the husband and they all sat down in the boss’ office.
The boss started,’ Mr. Mike, you wife reported to me some days ago that you squander your salary outside and only give the family N30,000 for upkeep. So right now, I’m going to personally hand over your salaries to her from today henceforth.’
‘How much is you transportation to work daily?’, the boss asked.
‘N900 sir’, Mr. Mike replied.
The boss handed over N19,800 to Mr. Mike. ‘That should take you for 22 days’.
‘Do you take breakfast at home?’, the boss continued.
‘No sir, I leave home very early to beat traffic jam’.
‘How much do you spend on breakfast and lunch daily?’
‘N500 sir’,replied Mr. Mike.
The boss handed over N11,000 to Mr. Mike.
‘Who pays the children’s school fees’, the boss asked facing Mrs. Mike.
‘He does’, she replied pointing at Mr. Mike.
‘How much is the school fees and how many kids have you?’
‘N30,000 per term for the two kids we have?’
‘In other words, you save N10,000 monthly for each term’s school fees right?’
‘Yes sir’, replied Mr. Mike.
Once again, the boss handed N10,000 to him.
‘Who pays the rent and how much is it?’
‘I do sir. The rent is N36,000 per annum.’ Mr. Mike replied.
‘That’s N3,000 monthly right?’, the boss added as he handed over N3,000 to Mr. Mike.
‘I don’t want to ask about clothings, electricity bills,etc as I know both of you might be handling that’, the boss said as he handed over N16,200 to Mrs. Mike.
‘What’s this for sir’, Mrs. Mike asked surprised.
‘Money for upkeep’, the boss replied her.
‘But it wouldn’t take us anywhere’, she exclaimed.
‘So why don’t you appreciate the N30, 000 your husband sacrifices for you monthly’, the boss asked.
The woman hugged her husband tightly and the rest is history.
Moral:
A lot of women don’t know what their husbands sacrifice to put food on the table. Most times, they go hungry. Sometimes, they swallow their pride and engage in menial and debasing jobs just so their families can eat. A lot of times, they can’t even buy good clothes to wear rather they sacrifice so that their wives and kids can get one.
A man might not tell you what he goes through to get you the cash he gives to you as telling you might make you start underrating his person but to tell you the truth, men go through a lot and need to be appreciated.
SOME OF THE THINGS THAT ENHANCE INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE.
SLEEPING TOGETHER
Sleeping together is a must for every married couple.
It doesn’t matter if you have 50 rooms in your house, it doesn’t matter if your children have a room for themselves, but it is very important that the couple sleeps on the same bed in the same room.
The wife can have her own room where she keeps most of her belonging, female friends and family can sleep in wife’s room whenever they pay a visit.
Many couple sleep together only when they want to make love, and after having sex, they both go to their separate rooms. This habit is not good enough.
Don’t sleep together only when you want to have sex.
When couple sleep together, they gist, talk, romance each other, all this thing rekindled love and enhance intimacy between husband and wife.
Quarrel and pending unresolved matters can easily be attended to and resolved amicably when on the bed together.
Body contact of a couple is very important, everything is not about sex, when you sleep together you create awareness and bond.
Note this, when a couple sleeps in separate rooms, they can both fall into temptation because there will be freedom to relate with the opposite sex which can lead to adultery.
EATING TOGETHER
Eating together is another thing that can bring intimacy between husband and wife.
Eat together at least once in a day.
If possible eat together on the same plate, if not, eat at the same time.
Eating together as a family gives you a sense of belonging.
Wife, if your husband is likely to return very late at night from work, you can take light food to suppress hunger till he comes back. Make sure you eat together at least once a day.
BATHING TOGETHER:
Bating together is fun.
Bathing together is romantic.
Married couples should cultivate the habit of bathing together. This should be done regularly most especially at night when the children are asleep.
GOOD COMMUNICATION
Communication is one of the vital ingredients of a successful marriage.
Good communication is healthy for your marriage.
There is power in communication as it energized the couple and also binds them together as one. Don’t toy or failed to have good communication together often. By this, it shows you are both committed and your relationship is still alive functioning. Communication is what takes your relationship to the next level. Any marriage that lost its communication lost its breath.
DATING
Dating is not limited to singles alone. Married couples should find time to go on a date too.
You can fix a day out of your busy schedule to go out on a date.
This type of dating does not involve children, you go out with your spouse and have fun.
Going out on a date often can strengthen your love and your intimacy with your spouse.
PLAY TOGETHER
You need to see your spouse as your best friend, feel free to relate and play together.
Don’t operate like Boss and employee.
You need to see yourself as one and as a playmate.
Don’t be too serious to the point of not leaving a room to play together.
Watch movies together, read the word of God together, share ideas together, play games together…
PRAY TOGETHER
Couples that pray together stay together. When you hold hands and pray, you connect with your spouse spiritually and physically.
When you pray together, you speak with one voice, you agree together spiritually.
Praying together regularly can do signs and wonders in your marriage.
Our Marriage is Blessed.
Ladies If Your Boyfriend is From This Tribe, Marry Him Fast. You Will Enjoy the Marriag
I have been married for close to five years, and because of this, most of my friends are also married. I also try to join marriage groups in church or my neighborhood, and there are a few things I have learned from doing so.
We women always talk and share experiences when we meet; we don’t share those secret details that should stay hidden like séx, how much your husband earns, etc. What we share are those everyday stuff.
From our discussions, I have learned that some tribes don’t take care of their women. Once the men marry you and you give birth, you have to start hustling else you and your kids will suffer hunger.
I also learned that there is one tribe that doesn’t joke with their women. The man doesn’t mind wearing palm slippers to church, but he wants his wife and kids to be dressed in the best money can buy.
This tribe is the Ibo tribe of Nigeria. The men here might have their faults in other areas, like all tribes do, however, when it comes to taking care of a woman and her kids, they are number one.
He takes care of their feeding, housing, clothing, etc. The woman steps out, and you see her skin glowing from eating good food, especially vegetables.
Beyond this, he also takes care of his wife’s people, sending money to them and even to his people at intervals.
He is the true epitome of a responsible man.
Ladies, if you meet this kind of man and he proposes to you, rush the proposal with your two hands and two legs before another sharp babe beats you to it.
A word is enough for the wise.
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Reasons why women deliver through operation.
Women usually deliver their babies through two methods;
1) Spontaneous V*ginal Delivery
2) Caesarean Section/C-section/CS
It is important to note that no method of delivery is superior to the other. Even though doctors would prefer the spontaneous v*ginal delivery, the C-section becomes an option when the life of either the mother or the baby is at stake.
There are some situations where the doctor will suggest a surgical operation (C-section) for safe delivery.
Some of these situations include;
1) Two Previous C-sections
If you have had two previous operations to deliver a baby, you should be prepared for another operation if you so happen to become pregnant again. This is because operations on the womb may weaken it and the womb might not be able to withstand the stress of labour. Allowing labour on a woman who has had two previous operations on the womb may lead to rupture of that womb which is life threatening.
2) Small Pelvis Ratio
In common parlance, some people may refer to the pelvis as the hips. The ratio of the ‘hips’ to the baby’s size is important.
If the baby is too big to pass through the pelvis, there is no way that baby will be delivered through the common route.
A C-section would be the best option.
3) Malpresentations
This can be detected through scans. Normally, a baby should come, with the head at the front facing downwards.
Sometimes, a baby may lie in abnormal positions known as malpresentations. This may prolong labour and warrant an operation.
4) Poor Labour Progress
The rate of widening of the cervix can be used as an indicator for good labour progress.
In a normal active labour, the cervix is meant to widen at the rate of 1cm per hour. If the cervix does not widen for 4 hours during active labour, the labour is deemed as ‘failure to progress’ and this is an indication for a C-section.
5) Diabetes in Pregnancy
This is not an absolute reason for an operation but a lot of times in mothers who are diabetic during pregnancy, the baby tends to grow really big. This makes delivery through the v*ginal route difficult and a C-section might be the best option.
Others
There are a whole lot of other reasons that may necessitate a C-section to be done. Some of these were not listed due to the need to make this article concise and the technicalities involved in explaining them.
Some of these include;
-Old age at first pregnancy
-Long history of infertility
-Baby in distress
-Placenta problems
-Severe hypertension in pregnancy
Among others.
Bottom Line
In some African societies, some women are made jest of because they were delivered of their babies through operation. This should be frowned upon as the decision concerning the mode of delivery is taken by the doctor with the thought of saving both mother and baby.
C-section is nothing to be ashamed of.
Things woman should not ignore
2. Any man that beats you up, leave him. You are not meant to be beaten by any man, instead you are meant to be loved and taken care of.
3. Any guy that doesn’t give you your own share of respect, leave him.
4. Any guy that switches off his phone when he is with you, leave him, he is cheating on you.
5. If your man doesn’t tell you he loves you at least once a while, ask him why he hasn’t said it to you.
6. Any man that doesn’t take care of you doesn’t deserve your love.
7. Any man that smokes or takes hard drug, leave him.
8. Any man that is a cultist, stay away from him.
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Signs that a guy likes you
You don’t need to wait for a guy to confess his love for you.There are other obvious signs to know whether he truly likes you or not
At the point when he sees you, he can’t resist smiling. Aside from smiling, his eyes will consistently be on you. You’re presumably making him insane!
2. He tries to get excessively close or avoid you
A person who is in love with you can express his love in two different ways: he can attempt to get excessively close to you or simply avoid you. The first type will try to find you wherever just to touch or embrace you. The second type will avoid you since he feels it’s acceptable to shroud what he feels.
3. He is watching you
If he likes you, he will consistently watch for you! He is your follower on Facebook and Instagram, and he will be the first to read your post and include likes new pics.
4. He talks differently
It is extremely simple to notice the adjustments in his discussion. If he is the boring sort of man, he can turn out to be exceptionally interesting or the other way around, in the event that he is a confident man, he can get puzzled and shy.
5. He tells others about you
At the point when an individual is in love, he needs to inform the entire world concerning it. In this way, your partner will consistently discuss you with his friends or relatives, since he likes you and is proud of you.
6. He likes what you like
He needs to find out about you and your interests. If you like craftsmanship, he will start to show his interest in it since this love has freed him up to different regions that he didn’t like previously.
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