- You get to have someone to come home to and share company with
- You get to have someone with whom you can have as much sexual pleasure as you both want
- You get to have someone to look after and who looks after you
- You get to walk with someone who is your best friend long term, at a time when even friendships don’t last
- You get to build a future with someone who knows you as an adult. Our parents know who were as children, our spouse knows who we truly are as adults
- You get to have someone to raise and guide the children with, collective effort
- You get to have someone who won’t give up on you just because of an argument
- You get to have someone who has your best interest at heart and looks out for you, warns you, corrects and challenges you to be better
- You get to have someone who shares in your success, your sorrows, your struggles, your good and bad days
- You get to have a companion. You are not alone, no loneliness. Someone to laugh with and open up to without feeling you are a bother or you are talking too much
- You get to have someone you are intertwined with to be your strength when you are weak
- You get to have a prayer partner who prays fervently because whatever affects you affects him/her
- You get to have a dependable helper you can count on
- You get to have someone to share responsibilities and roles with at home, lessening the weight
- You get to have someone to flirt with and be naughty with without judgement
- You get to have someone who has spent so much time with you that they understand you and can represent you, cover you and get you even without saying a word
- You get to have someone who worries about you when you are not OK, when an accident happens, when you are quiet or when you come home late
- You get to have someone to pour your love to knowing that you are not wasting it because this is long term
- You get to have someone who has given you authority to call on them, ask them for help or do things for you with no pay or demands; all because your spouse loves you and you do the same for your spouse
- You get to have someone who will be a custodian of your secrets and memories for life instead of talking with person A, then person B, then person C… It is comforting to build with one
- You get to have someone who teaches you things you never knew, only if you are willing to learn
- You get to have someone to grow old with whose love has been tried and tested
- You get to have someone who will continue with your vision and family in case you die
- You get to have someone you loved and who loved you for life in your brief journey on earth
- You get to have someone who helps you to fulfil purpose and you two coming together means you can do more
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BE A GOOD WOMEN,GOD WILL REWARD YOU
A Good Woman is not interested in your Money or Status.. What she wants from you is your Time, Loyalty, Love and Commitment.. But what is happening now is that Most Ladies (90-95%) are only interested in dating or getting married to a made man. They don’t believe a poor man today, has the potentials of being a rich man tomorrow.
If you’re such a lady, have you ever asked yourself how that rich man you crave for made his wealth?
And who said it is not a blessing to marry a rich man? Yes! it is. But then, what if you are destined to help your husband achieve his goals? Why do you look down on him because he hasn’t got luxury of cash?
Let me tell you something ladies, a rich man isn’t one who spends extravagantly. A rich man isn’t one who gives you a fat cash or writes you a cheque after sleeping with you.
A rich man is someone who’s potentially blessed and believes in his ability to convert his brain stock into reality in due time. When you meet such people, discuss with them, you’ll know instantly.
Don’t look down on him because he’s poor today, you never can tell tomorrow.
I really do respect ladies that pass through the fire with their man and stand proudly to enjoy with him tomorrow. “Don’t judge by appearance. A rich heart might be under a poor coat.”
When you love a man, be yourself. Stand by him. Give him all the support you can and hope for a better tomorrow. Don’t let your friend’s choices intimidate yours. He’s your man, be proud of him,he is your Man.
A good woman will never be impressed by wealth or riches because the unconditional love and affection she will give you for a lifetime is priceless. A real woman is not impressed by chivalry, heroism or macho looks because she will support you all your life with her emotional strength. A real woman just needs to be respected for her values and ethics and loved to the core ….
Finally,ladies Never abandon a good man for a stupid reason, a jobless man, and a lazy man is never the same. He may not have today and that doesn’t mean he will be lacking forever.
And for you Men, If you find a woman who is showing you love,care and support at your struggling stage in life. Do everything to keep her and always respect her and make her your Queen.
Be a good women with a sincere heart, support your man and God will reward you with a good family and your expectations will never be cut off in Jesus name Amen.
WOMEN, DON’T TRY TO KNOW A MAN WAYS.
A woman in the city went one morning to her husband’s office to report him to his boss. She told her husband’s boss how her husband usually squandered his N60,000 salary and only gave her N30,000 for upkeep.
After her narration, the boss told her to come back on the last day of the month.
On the set day, she arrived as planned. The boss called the husband and they all sat down in the boss’ office.
The boss started,’ Mr. Mike, you wife reported to me some days ago that you squander your salary outside and only give the family N30,000 for upkeep. So right now, I’m going to personally hand over your salaries to her from today henceforth.’
‘How much is you transportation to work daily?’, the boss asked.
‘N900 sir’, Mr. Mike replied.
The boss handed over N19,800 to Mr. Mike. ‘That should take you for 22 days’.
‘Do you take breakfast at home?’, the boss continued.
‘No sir, I leave home very early to beat traffic jam’.
‘How much do you spend on breakfast and lunch daily?’
‘N500 sir’,replied Mr. Mike.
The boss handed over N11,000 to Mr. Mike.
‘Who pays the children’s school fees’, the boss asked facing Mrs. Mike.
‘He does’, she replied pointing at Mr. Mike.
‘How much is the school fees and how many kids have you?’
‘N30,000 per term for the two kids we have?’
‘In other words, you save N10,000 monthly for each term’s school fees right?’
‘Yes sir’, replied Mr. Mike.
Once again, the boss handed N10,000 to him.
‘Who pays the rent and how much is it?’
‘I do sir. The rent is N36,000 per annum.’ Mr. Mike replied.
‘That’s N3,000 monthly right?’, the boss added as he handed over N3,000 to Mr. Mike.
‘I don’t want to ask about clothings, electricity bills,etc as I know both of you might be handling that’, the boss said as he handed over N16,200 to Mrs. Mike.
‘What’s this for sir’, Mrs. Mike asked surprised.
‘Money for upkeep’, the boss replied her.
‘But it wouldn’t take us anywhere’, she exclaimed.
‘So why don’t you appreciate the N30, 000 your husband sacrifices for you monthly’, the boss asked.
The woman hugged her husband tightly and the rest is history.
Moral:
A lot of women don’t know what their husbands sacrifice to put food on the table. Most times, they go hungry. Sometimes, they swallow their pride and engage in menial and debasing jobs just so their families can eat. A lot of times, they can’t even buy good clothes to wear rather they sacrifice so that their wives and kids can get one.
A man might not tell you what he goes through to get you the cash he gives to you as telling you might make you start underrating his person but to tell you the truth, men go through a lot and need to be appreciated.
SOME OF THE THINGS THAT ENHANCE INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE.
SLEEPING TOGETHER
Sleeping together is a must for every married couple.
It doesn’t matter if you have 50 rooms in your house, it doesn’t matter if your children have a room for themselves, but it is very important that the couple sleeps on the same bed in the same room.
The wife can have her own room where she keeps most of her belonging, female friends and family can sleep in wife’s room whenever they pay a visit.
Many couple sleep together only when they want to make love, and after having sex, they both go to their separate rooms. This habit is not good enough.
Don’t sleep together only when you want to have sex.
When couple sleep together, they gist, talk, romance each other, all this thing rekindled love and enhance intimacy between husband and wife.
Quarrel and pending unresolved matters can easily be attended to and resolved amicably when on the bed together.
Body contact of a couple is very important, everything is not about sex, when you sleep together you create awareness and bond.
Note this, when a couple sleeps in separate rooms, they can both fall into temptation because there will be freedom to relate with the opposite sex which can lead to adultery.
EATING TOGETHER
Eating together is another thing that can bring intimacy between husband and wife.
Eat together at least once in a day.
If possible eat together on the same plate, if not, eat at the same time.
Eating together as a family gives you a sense of belonging.
Wife, if your husband is likely to return very late at night from work, you can take light food to suppress hunger till he comes back. Make sure you eat together at least once a day.
BATHING TOGETHER:
Bating together is fun.
Bathing together is romantic.
Married couples should cultivate the habit of bathing together. This should be done regularly most especially at night when the children are asleep.
GOOD COMMUNICATION
Communication is one of the vital ingredients of a successful marriage.
Good communication is healthy for your marriage.
There is power in communication as it energized the couple and also binds them together as one. Don’t toy or failed to have good communication together often. By this, it shows you are both committed and your relationship is still alive functioning. Communication is what takes your relationship to the next level. Any marriage that lost its communication lost its breath.
DATING
Dating is not limited to singles alone. Married couples should find time to go on a date too.
You can fix a day out of your busy schedule to go out on a date.
This type of dating does not involve children, you go out with your spouse and have fun.
Going out on a date often can strengthen your love and your intimacy with your spouse.
PLAY TOGETHER
You need to see your spouse as your best friend, feel free to relate and play together.
Don’t operate like Boss and employee.
You need to see yourself as one and as a playmate.
Don’t be too serious to the point of not leaving a room to play together.
Watch movies together, read the word of God together, share ideas together, play games together…
PRAY TOGETHER
Couples that pray together stay together. When you hold hands and pray, you connect with your spouse spiritually and physically.
When you pray together, you speak with one voice, you agree together spiritually.
Praying together regularly can do signs and wonders in your marriage.
Our Marriage is Blessed.
Reasons why women deliver through operation.
Women usually deliver their babies through two methods;
1) Spontaneous V*ginal Delivery
2) Caesarean Section/C-section/CS
It is important to note that no method of delivery is superior to the other. Even though doctors would prefer the spontaneous v*ginal delivery, the C-section becomes an option when the life of either the mother or the baby is at stake.
There are some situations where the doctor will suggest a surgical operation (C-section) for safe delivery.
Some of these situations include;
1) Two Previous C-sections
If you have had two previous operations to deliver a baby, you should be prepared for another operation if you so happen to become pregnant again. This is because operations on the womb may weaken it and the womb might not be able to withstand the stress of labour. Allowing labour on a woman who has had two previous operations on the womb may lead to rupture of that womb which is life threatening.
2) Small Pelvis Ratio
In common parlance, some people may refer to the pelvis as the hips. The ratio of the ‘hips’ to the baby’s size is important.
If the baby is too big to pass through the pelvis, there is no way that baby will be delivered through the common route.
A C-section would be the best option.
3) Malpresentations
This can be detected through scans. Normally, a baby should come, with the head at the front facing downwards.
Sometimes, a baby may lie in abnormal positions known as malpresentations. This may prolong labour and warrant an operation.
4) Poor Labour Progress
The rate of widening of the cervix can be used as an indicator for good labour progress.
In a normal active labour, the cervix is meant to widen at the rate of 1cm per hour. If the cervix does not widen for 4 hours during active labour, the labour is deemed as ‘failure to progress’ and this is an indication for a C-section.
5) Diabetes in Pregnancy
This is not an absolute reason for an operation but a lot of times in mothers who are diabetic during pregnancy, the baby tends to grow really big. This makes delivery through the v*ginal route difficult and a C-section might be the best option.
Others
There are a whole lot of other reasons that may necessitate a C-section to be done. Some of these were not listed due to the need to make this article concise and the technicalities involved in explaining them.
Some of these include;
-Old age at first pregnancy
-Long history of infertility
-Baby in distress
-Placenta problems
-Severe hypertension in pregnancy
Among others.
Bottom Line
In some African societies, some women are made jest of because they were delivered of their babies through operation. This should be frowned upon as the decision concerning the mode of delivery is taken by the doctor with the thought of saving both mother and baby.
C-section is nothing to be ashamed of.
If you want to have twins babies do these.
Ovulation is the release of an egg from one of a woman’s ovaries. After the egg is released, it travels down the fallopian tube, where fertilization by a sperm cell may occur. Ovulation typically lasts one day and occurs in the middle of a woman’s menstrual cycle, about two weeks before she expects to get her period. Woman usually give birth to twins if the egg parts into two after Fertilization.
1. Yam: Yoruba tribe of Nigeria have higher rate of twin,this is because mostly Yoruba’s ate yam. Yam helped to increase the progesterone and the phytooesteogens which are the two reproductive hormones in woman. Eating too much of yam leads to twins or multiple births.
2. Folic acid: Folic acid is part of the important mineral they usually prescribe for a woman to eat during their ovulation so as to promote the reproductive hormones. Foods that are rich in Folic acid are Pearl, garden eggs, egg, avocado etc. Most doctors prescribe Folic acid to a pregnant woman instead of vitamin’s.
3. Dairy products: Dairy product like milk help to build up the protein in humans. When a woman begins to consume a lot of milk , the ovaries begin to release more eggs where by their will be possibility of given birth to twins.
4. Pineapple core: Pineapple core can be gotten from pineapple fruit. Pineapple core is usually introduced into the diet of a woman if the woman really loved to give birth to twins. It promotes the hormones system in the body.
5. Complex carbohydrates: Examples of Complex carbohydrates are beans, grains, and vegetables. Complex carbohydrates help to prevent neural birth defects in babies in woman. The scientists approved complex carbohydrates because it contains a lot of hormonal fiction in the body and also help during ovulation.
If you truly love to give birth to twins, make sure you begin to eat this sets of food.
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Powerful prayers every parents should say for their children
The Lord has given parents the gift of prayer, why not use this gifts on your Children. Bless your children with your mouth, don’t curse them. Here are few powerful prayers for your kids;https://googleads.g.doubleclick.net/pagead/ads?client=ca-pub-1883810847636355&output=html&h=316&slotname=8228856220&adk=3740527632&adf=3872947312&w=379&fwrn=7&lmt=1593331517&rafmt=11&psa=1&guci=2.2.0.0.2.2.0.0&format=379×316&url=https%3A%2F%2Fcdn-af.feednews.com%2Fnews%2Fdetail%2F7c9c5f16505bcf332a1029d61d80fb41%3Fclient%3Dnews%26country%3Dng%26features%3D34359738287%26lang%3Den%26language%3Den%26low_perf%3Dfalse%26mode%3Dbody%26swdp%3D411%26uid%3D59ea195a14c73245908b3459860979f93f145498&flash=0&wgl=1&adsid=NT&dt=1593331517504&bpp=35&bdt=3343&idt=-M&shv=r20200624&cbv=r20190131&ptt=9&saldr=aa&abxe=1&cookie=ID%3Dbfccbcf8a42396e0%3AT%3D1593270663%3AS%3DALNI_Mbc8LWNEg_5axTkJLfxjDY4m1AD8w&prev_fmts=0x0&nras=1&correlator=6844550589397&frm=20&pv=1&ga_vid=2046445851.1593270573&ga_sid=1593331517&ga_hid=838170268&ga_fc=0&iag=0&icsg=10529790&dssz=14&mdo=0&mso=0&rplot=4&u_tz=60&u_his=1&u_java=0&u_h=892&u_w=412&u_ah=892&u_aw=412&u_cd=24&u_nplug=0&u_nmime=0&adx=16&ady=517&biw=412&bih=719&scr_x=0&scr_y=293&eid=21066485%2C42530493%2C42530495&oid=3&pvsid=2662171493116885&pem=714&rx=0&eae=0&fc=1924&brdim=0%2C0%2C0%2C0%2C412%2C0%2C412%2C719%2C412%2C719&vis=1&rsz=%7C%7CoEe%7C&abl=CS&pfx=0&fu=8336&bc=31&ifi=1&uci=a!1&fsb=1&xpc=uOnoTR1V3j&p=https%3A//cdn-af.feednews.com&dtd=76
1. My God in heaven, I hereby put my children into your holy hands,God pleass protect them.
2. Father lord please cover my Children with your blood, do not let any evil befall them.
3. Oh Lord in heaven, make my children the head and not the tail, they shall not know any failure.
4. None of my children will die an untimely death in Jesus name
5. Any plan of the devil against the life of my kids, Father lord send it back to sender in Jesus name.
6. Where ever the evil ones are seated planning evil against my children, Father set confusion in their midst.
7. Any evil hand upon my children be removed by the blood of Jesus.
8. Any spirit of Disappointment in my Children’s life, Lord I cast them out this minute.
9. Father Lord please keep and be with my Children, in their coming out and going in.
10. What ever my Children touch shall be blessed, it shall be fruitful in Jesus name.
11.I stand against any evil plan against my children.
12. No evil prophecy in the life of my Kids shall come to pass. Amen
13. Whenever my children’s destiny has been buried, i command you to come out and locate them.
14. Father Lord, link my children to their destiny helpers.
15. Father Lord, any satanic power that wants to use my children to bring pain or sorrow to me, father destroy them in Jesus name.
16. Any spirit of disrespect and being stubborn in my Children’s life i cast you out in Jesus name.
17. My kids shall live long before me. I shall not bury my kids Amen.
18. My Children shall grow in Christ, they shall not bring any shame or disgrace to my home.
19. Which ever of my child that is sick, father heal and bless them.
20. If my children have sinned against you in any way, merciful God please forgive them.
Please say Amen if you believe.
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HOW TO IDENTIFY A SPOILED CHILD
If you thought spoiled children only come from rich families, think again. While it’s natural for kids to misbehave occasionally, issues may get out of hand when bad behaviors turns to bad habits. As a parent, you have a responsibility to train your child or ward including watching out for subtle traits that could metamorphous into unwelcome attitudes that could go from childhood to adulthood.
A parent’s worst nightmare is a spoiled child. Tensions are bound to be particularly heightened these days when parents are forced to spend more time at home with their children. However, if those less-than-kind behaviors aren’t an occasional occurrence but a constant state of being, there’s a larger problem at play—you’ve got a spoiled child. How do you detect the warning signs earlier on that your child/ward is sliding down the slippery slope of decadence?
THEY REFUSE TO DO CHORES
Children should be taught by their parents and caregivers to do chores around the house. A spoiled child who feels too lazy or too entitled to help out around the house is heading for an unsavory future.
THEY DON’T SAY ‘THANK YOU’
If your child won’t show gratitude even when prompted, that’s a good indicator that they’re spoiled. Self-entitlement is one of the reasons a child may think it unnecessary to show appreciation.
THEY CAN’T STAND THE WORD, ‘NO’
While no one likes to get ‘no’ for an answer, a spoiled child is staunchly unwilling to make concessions or accept that he/she may not always get what they want.
THEY DON’T SHARE
Children generally don’t want to share their personal stuff with others but a child should be able to express empathy by demonstrating generosity. A spoiled child has a constant unwillingness to share with others.
THEY NEVER OFFER HELP
While your child does not have to join you at every turn of work, selfishness and self-centeredness won’t let a spoiled child offer to help out in a demanding or difficult situation unless they were instructed to do so.
THEY DON’T CARE IF THEIR BEHAVIOUR HURTS OTHERS
A spoiled child acts and make demands without taking situations into consideration. Spoiled children don’t care much about how their attitude or actions affect others as long as their own needs are met.
THEY HATE RULES
Spoiled children have an innate feeling that rules do not apply to them probably because they are too pampered and not held accountable or punished when they break rules. Such an attitude could lead to bigger societal problems in the future.
THEY’RE BULLIES
Spoiled children are often bullies. Because they are usually self-obsessed and hardly consider the feelings of others, they tend to bully others to feel better or stoke their own ego.
THEY LASH OUT IF THEY DON’T HAVE THEIR WAY
Typical of narcissists—and spoiled children are being raised to develop narcissistic traits—when they don’t get their way they will be mean and overly dramatic such as slamming doors, throwing things, and dishing out deep insults. Some even attack their parents.
THEY ALWAYS ASK FOR MORE
While it is healthy for children to go to their parents when they have needs, a spoiled child keeps asking for more even when they can see that their parents or guardians are barely making ends meet.
Several ways to train your child.
The way children become corrupt this days is very alarming and something needs to be done urgently.
Have you ever wondered why your children got to know the bad things they do? there are many ways a child can become corrupt. No matter how you try to stop your child from hearing or seeing some things, you’ll one day hear that child say something a little kid shouldn’t be saying because you send that child to school where he mixes up with other children who are already corrupt.
The popular saying “spare the rod and spoil the child”, is totally true. Flog your child if you catch that child doing any of this three things below.
1. Acting like a cultist
You might think this is a joke, but it affects kids, especially people living in rough areas where there’re cult members. Your kids will see a lot of displays from those cultists and might one day try it out. If you eventually catch your child playing the role of a cultist, flog that child very well, please don’t over look this.
2. Stealing from the pot
This is very common among children nowadays, but that doesn’t mean your child has to grow up to be a thief. I have seen ladies who pet their children even after catching them stealing from their pot of food. To tell you the truth, it will never end well because that child will end up becoming a thief or something worse.
3. Insulting Elders
A lot of kids nowadays are very insultive, and they have their parents to blame. You will see a little child calling an adult ” Idiot”, and the parents will just overlook. Some of them even quarrel with people who flog their children for insulting elders. If that kid grows up with that training, he will definitely be beating or fighting with his mom or dad on daily basis.
4. Lying
5. Greedy
6. Envy
7. Malice
Don’t spare your child if you catch him/her doing any of the three things above.
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Women beware of these.
A woman was taken
by 5 men,
who according to
hospital and police report was raped by a
gang before
being dumped at a
bus
station!
Though she was unable
to remember
the events of the previous evening,
tests conducted
revealed that she had
been raped repeatedly.
There was a
trace of
Rohypnol in her blood.
Rohypnol,
is presently being
used as a rape drug.
It is actually
a small sterilization
pill which is now being
used by
rapists to drug their
targets at
parties.
The drug makes the
mind of the
target (would be victim)
go blank
so that she does not remember
anything that transpired and worse still,
the drug sterilizes the victim so that
she doesn’t conceive
from the rape
and the rapist need not worry about
having his identity
revealed
later by a paternity
test.
The real bad news is
that the drug’s
side effects
ARE NOT TEMPORARY,
they are
PERMANENT.
Any female that
takes it
WILL NEVER BE ABLE
TO CONCEIVE.
The drug is
administered by
dropping it into the
target’s drink.
The girl wouldn’t
remember a thing the
next morning,
nothing at all that had
taken place the
night before
will she remember.
Rohypnol, dissolves
rapidly and
easily in drinks, leaving
no taste and
no change in color
which makes it
impossible to detect.
These weasels can
get this drug
from anyone who is in
the vet school or
any medical university.
It’s that easy and
Rohypnol is about to
break out big
on campuses everywhere.
Believe it or not,
there are
even sites on the
internet telling
people
how to use it.
Girls,
please be careful when you’re out,
especially in a party,
don’t leave your
drink unattended.
(Buy your own drinks, ensure bottles
or cans received are unopened or sealed;
don’t even taste
someone else’s drink).
For guys –
Please inform all your female family members, relatives and friends.
Remember you also
have sisters or
might one day have
a daughter(s).
Important News are
meant to be
passed on,
please don’t keep or
ignore.
Please share to
protect and save lives.
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