Marriage is a union between two people that creates a family tie and carries legal, social rights and responsibilities. It also can be defined as the union of any two people as husband and wife, to the exclusion of others. A perfect Wife is a good wife, she is his husband’s better half, life partner and significant other. She isn’t a gold digger, but a soul mate. A good marriage is of course perfect than the best wine, only if you find yourself a good and perfect wife.
A perfect wife is rare to find these days, in fact searching for the perfect wife is like digging the earth to find a black diamond. Have you ever wondered why some relationships are being ruined by sudden divorce even though the husband pledged to be with his wife “till death do both apart”. It might be a little mistake from the husband, or from the wife.https://googleads.g.doubleclick.net/pagead/ads?client=ca-pub-1883810847636355&output=html&h=316&slotname=8228856220&adk=3740527632&adf=3872947312&w=379&fwrn=7&lmt=1592724888&rafmt=11&psa=1&guci=2.2.0.0.2.2.0.0&format=379×316&url=https%3A%2F%2Fcdn-af.feednews.com%2Fnews%2Fdetail%2F4ec4b3f258c1624212f47f11c932b03e%3Fclient%3Dnews%26country%3Dng%26features%3D34359738287%26lang%3Den%26language%3Den%26low_perf%3Dfalse%26mode%3Dbody%26swdp%3D411%26uid%3D59ea195a14c73245908b3459860979f93f145498&flash=0&wgl=1&dt=1592724888397&bpp=54&bdt=3442&idt=56&shv=r20200610&cbv=r20190131&ptt=9&saldr=aa&abxe=1&cookie=ID%3D707cbc3539aa4e10%3AT%3D1592419423%3AS%3DALNI_Mboab6yKsRb-68uklt6Ax5OdDP5JA&crv=1&prev_fmts=0x0&nras=1&correlator=6352735139644&frm=20&pv=1&ga_vid=12903382.1592419337&ga_sid=1592724888&ga_hid=720060924&ga_fc=0&iag=0&icsg=2632447&dssz=13&mdo=0&mso=0&rplot=4&u_tz=60&u_his=1&u_java=0&u_h=892&u_w=412&u_ah=892&u_aw=412&u_cd=24&u_nplug=0&u_nmime=0&adx=16&ady=587&biw=412&bih=719&scr_x=0&scr_y=0&eid=42530493%2C42530495&oid=3&pvsid=4129872983125447&pem=714&rx=0&eae=0&fc=1924&brdim=0%2C0%2C0%2C0%2C412%2C0%2C412%2C719%2C412%2C719&vis=1&rsz=%7C%7CoEe%7C&abl=CS&pfx=0&fu=8336&bc=31&ifi=1&uci=a!1&fsb=1&xpc=7eefQ9WAPZ&p=https%3A//cdn-af.feednews.com&dtd=174
To be a rare woman, a perfect wife and a true mother of Africa, you shouldn’t have one of these five qualities:
1 Selfishness:
2 Melancholy:
This has truly led to diverse divorce. Being selfish is holding one’s self-interest as the standard for decision-making. It is also having regard for oneself above others’ wellbeing. A selfish woman is egoistic, egotistic, greedy and self centered. A woman who places her interest as the standard for decision making will never make a good wife, she must ask for her husband’s interest also. Two interests is better than one.
Melancholy isn’t just the state of being sad, it is a great sorrow or depression especially due to a thoughtful and introspective nature. A wife might be melancholic, if her husband loses his job,or got demoted and not promoted in his occupation. No matter what happens in your marriage, stay happy, be prayerful and let patience be your watchword.
3 Luxuriousness:
What is luxury? You might define it as the quality of being rich and expensive. No! That isn’t just the definition, luxury is something very pleasant, expensive, invaluable, costly and pricey, but not really needed in life. If you are the type that do buy irrelevant materials, not for your own purpose but for others to see the perfect definition of luxury in you, you might not last up to five years in a marriage. No wonder, it is rare to find poor people divorce themselves these days, but it is common among the rich.
4 jealousy
A jealous wife doubt his husband, he doesn’t trust him. Being jealous is suspecting rivalry in love, a jealous wife suspects his husband might replace her with another, it is being suspicious of your husband’s fidelity. If you are the jealous type, stop this act. To be in a primary relationship, being jealous is actually essential. But being jealous after marriage isn’t a good thing, you might be jealous when you see your husband with another lady. In case you need to know, jealousy is a gateway to the world of heart attack, or high blood pressure.
5 Temper:
Some ladies are naturally choleric, hot-headed and hot-tempered. They are fast in becoming very vocal or even violent when angered or frustrated. This isn’t an appropriate manner, the husband as the head of the family must be respected, if you adore him then he will adorn and prettify you with his love. If you are hot-tempered as a lady, you won’t make a good housewife.
6 Garrulous/Talkative:
A garrulous and loquacious lady can be irritating. Sometimes, the only thing your man might want in you is your silence and calmness. If you tend to speak openly and honestly, neglecting privacy and consequences, how would your husband be happy when with you. Don’t be a talkative.
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